Putus-Cinta

[cheguThamrin]

ada keluar kat surat khabar ''Tamil Murasu''...hehe

Oh, yg pasal antara Preity Zeinta dengan Reni Mukherjee?
Kan cerita lama tu....  :oops:

[Module]

Cinta pertama itu indah sekali..
I believe no one can forget their 1st love....
2nd....3rd..love. hanya mengisi kekosongan. Cintanya tak sepenuh yang kali pertama....Ohhh! tidak....

[suriazam]

Putus cinta..... so sad topic...
Anyway, my future hubby adalah cinta pertama dan insyallah cinta terakhir ku...
Tapi selama 7 tahun bersama, ada jugak masa2 yang kita berputus cinta.... up tp one extent, i nak cari keje overseas, tak sanggup melalui hidup dalam kenangan lama terlalu pedih.... tapi betapa banyak world war pun, jodoh ditakdirkan tuhan, akhirnya kita akan bernikah tak lama lagik....

Cinta pertama adalah cinta yang paling suci dan mendalam kerana dalam cinta pertama itu one does not look at looks or character or think about the future, you love there and then , no questions asked.

[aUra]

kadang ada org berkawin dgn cinta pertama.. ada cinta pertama cinta monyet.. for me.. i meet many wrong man before i meet him.. even i complaining abt him at times.. Alhamdulillah.. he is for me.. kalau tau dia.. siang2 dulu i pinang dia..    

[Dnora]

Putus cinta..... so sad topic...
Cinta pertama adalah cinta yang paling suci dan mendalam kerana dalam cinta pertama itu one does not look at looks or character or think about the future, you love there and then , no questions asked.

So very true. Not to compare subsequent relationships after that, but 1st love whether you want to admit or not become a benchmark for future relationships. Especially bila perpisahan berlaku bukan dengan kerelaan hati.

[cheguThamrin]

Putus cinta..... so sad topic...
Cinta pertama adalah cinta yang paling suci dan mendalam kerana dalam cinta pertama itu one does not look at looks or character or think about the future, you love there and then , no questions asked.

Suci yes, mendalam..?  :roll:

Camner nak dikatakan mendalam, pasal kita blom tahu apa tu cinta sebenar, yg memerlukan pengorbanan, perpisahan, perselisihan, dalam sulaman kasih sayang?  Apa yg kita pelajari dari cinta pertama untuk cinta kedua, dan seterusnya... adalah sesuatu yg baru, kerana ia melibatkan situasi yg berbeza... :roll:

Sekadar pandangan...

[aUra]

:lol:  cinta pertama ku yg suci.. cinta parent pada kami..

[buffy]

betul ke , 1st love can never be forgotten ??
alahai , mcm sedih lak , takut pun ada ... pasal my fiance nye 1st love ... NOT ME !!!!  :?

Issshhh , namun begitu buffy yakin , cinta nya ada padaku !!!! setelah 4 tahun bersama .... bermcm mcm telah dilalui , up n down , left n right ... hmm , after he take a step 4ward to get engaged , insya allah , his rem me n me only !! ( walaupun masih ada jugak tertanya tanya , dia teringat ke tidak kekasih lama dia tu !! )

hmm , buffy nak tanya , nak shara share lah ... buffy kan ,selalu jugak tau mcm tertanya mcm mana agaknye rupa my fiance nye ex eh ... pasal buffy pernah drg pasal dia tapi tak pernah sekali pun melihat wajahyne !!
ada tak kaum kaum hawa yg lain sama fikiran dgn buffy ?! kata org , mcm curious gitu ahh , nak tahu ... lawah ke dia tu , lawa dari aku ke ?
bukan buffy tak percaya tunang buffy ... ( kalau tak percaya , tak jadi tunang oii !! )  

[firework]

Putus cinta...hemm...byk kali.

Tapi yg i paling ingat dlm 5 org

No. 1.. kenal kat U. Putus sebab dia care kat org lain( bukan g/f) lebih dari i. Dah tu nak ajak kahwin cepat...eii.. kita nak kerja dululah.  Tapi dia ni baik orgnya.

No. 2.. sayang dia abis.  Tapi rupanya tunang org.  Remuk rendam hati..tapi syukur juga tak jadi dgn dia..sbb dpt le i kahwin dgn hubby sekarang

No. 3... kawan aja.. atas sebab usia.. ingat why not kahwin.  Tak luv pun.  Bawa jumpa family.... perangai buruk depan famili... terus i cancel.

No. 4.. kawan juga.. macam no. 3.  Bawa jumpa family , family ok aja..tapi i yg tak leh accept dia more than a friend.. putus akhirnya.

No. 5..  jumpa dalam emel... jatuh cinta masa beremel lagi... bercinta kejab, terus kawen.  Syukur jumpa jugalah dgn soul mate akhirnya.

[khairill]

for me...

she is the onli love i had, meet her kat KL worked as a cashier in one of the leading supermarket... so kenal kenal dah lama jugak sey...so akhirnya jumper mak bapak dier..and setuju..mine pon setuju..alhhamdulilah tak de papa yang gangu walaupon baru umur 21 hmm... syukur.....

[Fairylady]

1.Ada sesiapa di forum ni pernah putus cinta?

Adalah tiga, empat kali tapi yang satu tu really serious. Empat tahun bersama segala galanya indah.
Walaupun ada ups and down kita kekal hingga tahun ke empat. Dugaan by his mum and another girl.
Akhirnya kita putus. mcm nak gila cuba lupakan cos terlampau banyak kenangan bersama. I feel
1st love memang susah nak dilupakan. Dua belas tahun berlalu, kenangan itu tetap ada. Dan kalau terserempak dengannya
tetap rasa berdebar debar mcm dulu dulu bercinta.
Kuasa tuhan macamana jauh pun dia kadang kala terjumpa juga.

Mungkin ada hikmah di sebalik nya. Rasanya tak sama cinta pertama dengan kasih sayang dengan
my hubby sekarang.
Tak ada rasa cinta lagi tapi sekadar kenangan yang sukar dilenyapkan. Whatever it is my kasih sayang is to my husband.

Tuhan yang menentukan my hubby is a better choice for me. Alhamdullillah.

[dee.anna]

Dulu date ramai but hanya 3 ni je yg can consider heartbreaking jugaklah story nyer.

1) Berkenalan bila baru juga dapat kerja baru. Orangnyer baik cuma orang tua je yang tak berkenan (yg ni a bit pte lah to story). I also freaked out bila dia kata nak dtg meminang sbb time tu baru nak pegang duit. Bila kita putus, he did something stupid which sealed his fate to be an ex.

2) He was pretty nice in the beginning and then things went downhill when he stopped working at a good trading company. Instead, dia ikot kawan dia and opened a reno company which went kapoot in a year. Dia pinjam my money to kononnyer bayar duit sewa kedai but rupanya dia bayar duit downpayment for his motor. Dia lesap bersama2 duit tu sekali. Cet!

3) Yg no. 3 ni quite sensitive lah but we were together for about 1.5 yrs. Dah berbual pasal kawin & kids & the future bila my cloud 9 was rudely snatched away from me. Hated him to the core but alhamdulillah I disedarkan sebelum we went way too far with our plans.

After no. 3, I met my hubby and the rest is history. ;D

[khairill]

CIntaku BukAn DiatAS KertaS Dan CinTAku BukAn KerAnA HArta...

[shyfurby]

Haha, actually ada sambungannya... Jeng jeng jeng....

Al kisah, yang ke-4 pun tak kesampaian.... Dated him around 3rd quater of 2004(plus/minus) all through till 3rd quater of 2006.i felt this was the hardest break up for me ever; even more than my 1st. Because he planted the ideas of getting engaged and married in me.i wasnt really keen on marriage earlier into the relationship. But he kept saying about those things till i've came to believe he might be the one. Dia bwk jumpa parents dia two mths into relationship, introduced me to his siblings and other family members.i was totally into him and his ideas and that brought me to this forum coz i was looking for tips and such on matters regarding engagement n such.
How we broke up?: noticed significant changes in him late 2005.he was MIA for a week in early 2006.i totally broke down.he did surfaced early feb; i still loved him but intuition told me he wasnt the same guy i've known.tried to hold on, but he went missing again.i eventually gave up;returned his ring to his parents(my best friend tolong 'pass'kan kat rumah dia).till now i didnt know why he left me just like that.

After him,3rd quater of 2006, weny steady with another guy.my friends cakap he really loves me n it's better for someone to love u than u love and got hurt.i gave the relationship a go.dia memang baik,penyayang but in the end, i ended the relationship as i felt i couldnt love him ever. I hurt a good guy and im not proud of it.

After dating few more guys,2nd quater of 2007, i got to know two guys which eventually i had to make a choice. Alhamdu lillah, made the choice and got married in aug 2008.

Harap2 itulah yang terakhir.amin...

hmm...putus cinta?
adalah dalam 3 kali frust..hinggalah jumpa yang ke empat ni....

kisah pertama: nak kata cinta monyet pun ye,tapi rasa macam real....bayangkan dah hampir 5 tahun bersama....memori..fuhh...banyak beb...bila kenang2kan...sayu hati....
kita kenal time skool dulu...satu kelas lak tu...tapi dia muda me by 1 yr...time tu dia jadi class moniter...heheh.....zaman seleng2....dia 15,me 16.dari kawan biasa,tau2 jadi 'steady'..heheh..tu pun bila me dah reject dia skali...hmm...dugaan..woo....perit beb....mana skola nye masalah....parents dia nye masalah......me amik masa 3 tahun untuk menang hati emak dia...maklum lah....anak lelaki sulung......
sebab putus:memang takde jodoh......penyebabnya...hmmm....susah nak cakap.....sedih pun ada,terkilan pun ada.....haizz........pendek kata....remuk redam.....mudah-mudahan tak lagi bertemu diri dia.

kisah kedua:ni consider relationship on the rebound......si guy ni pandai amik hati yang sedang luka parah......apalagi...jiwa pun terbelai.....bertahan slama stahun je.sebabnya...dia suka cter2 pasal ex dia...ex dia bagus lah....best la....n saban hari ex dia contact dia.mana leh tahan beb.....dia lak jenis nak control org....nak berkawan pun tak leh,apalagi...gave him the boot.harap2 perkara yang ngeri ini takkan berulang.

kisah ketiga: hmmmmmm........ni paling kelakar...cuma 2 bulan je jadi couple.kita dua ni serasi as kawan.....tapi...ntah ngape dia suka me more than frens.....we tried to make things work...tapi,bila jadi couple memang tak aman....me tak tahan dgn cara dia yg suka flirt....so,kita berdua sesama setuju untuk jadi kawan semula sebelum kita saling melukai antara satu sama lain dgn lebih teruk....
the rest is history......